Saturday, May 09, 2009

Thing I Don't Like: The Faceless Woman


This is something that has just always bugged me and I was recently reminded of it and I realized I hadn't written about it and I thought it was high time to just get to it. Would you like me to stop wasting time at the beginning of my posts and just get to the point already? That's not up for discussion. What is, however, is the still prevalent misogynist objectification of women in male artists' music videos.

I thought Queen Latifah had cleared this all up when she told everyone she wasn't a "'b!tch' or a 'ho'," but no, the problem persists, but I do have to say that the severity has been reduced. Rock has changed so considerably that the idea of Tawny Kitaen making love to the hood of a car would seem less sexy and more hilarious nowadays (actually it was kinda funny back then too) and even hip hop/rap/R&B, while never completely abandoning the "video chick" mentality, has also managed to incorporate other conceptions of women.

The problem is far from solved, however, and I wanted to discuss one, I think, creepy form of this objectification in music videos. Below is Asher Roth's (which is not a brand of linens from J.C. Penney contrary to what you may think) video for his second single "Be By Myself." You don't need to watch the whole thing.

A minute or two will give you the basic idea.



What annoyed me when I saw this video on the MTV Hits, and what you may have guessed by the title of this post, is not the use of the scantily clad ladies in his video. Look. I'm sexually attracted to men, and often objectify them on this blog. My problem is the fact that so very often, like in most of the above video, the girls being objectified aren't even allowed to show their whole faces!

Sure, I understand. You want the hot girls in your videos. Fine. But can they at least have faces not covered up by gigantic sunglasses or simply not shown on screen at all. Are they not worthy enough of even being identifiable, or is that the point?

Luckily, in Roth's video, the girls do (briefly) get to show that yes, they are humanoid, but I see this pretty often in vids and it always bugs me. What kind of message does this send to young women about self-worth? What about men?



As I said, Roth's video is by far not the worst example I've seen. It just reminded me of the issue. The WORST example of The Faceless Woman I've seen recently is that video from an artist named Lloyd with Lil Wayne called "Girls Around the World," (video above) where the girls dancing around in the video, get this...

WEREN'T ALLOWED TO HAVE EYES!

It was literally as if someone said "We devalue you so much that we are literally gonna take away the Windows to Your Soul and replace them with beams of light. Now get in the corner and prepared to be oiled down." The most annoying part is that I actually kinda like the song, but I could never. No eyes!

Seriously! Well, enough me. Discussion Question Time: Do you agree that there is nothing particularly attractive about a Faceless Woman? Why do you think that concept is appealing?

For me, I need to see a guy's face to consider him attractive. The sunglasses have to come off and yeah, his eyes can't emit beams of light. Unless he's Cyclops (right), in which case, I make one exception.

And I understand there could be some artistic merit in disguising parts of the face to maybe make a statement about humanity, but I don't think these and other male artists (and their music video directors) are thinking that. I just think they want a bunch of toned bodies to stare at. How then can we get upset when young boys watching these videos treat girls like sex objects? Is that too far or not far enough?

(p.s. so ends my week of exploring gender discrimination. Have a great weekend!)

4 comments:

C. Paul Keller said...

Junior, I totally agree with you, on multiple points. The power dynamics of a faceless female dancing for a video are disturbing. It's as if they are not just sex objects, but actual objects, playthings. I don't like it.

I clicked on the link you had to the article about the Ciara/JT video. I think we've discuss my abiding hard-on for the Timberlake, but that video put a sour feeling in my tummy. The way Ciara is treated like sexual furniture or a pantsless windup doll actually had me rethinking my feelings about the man. It really, really made me angry that here in 2009 any woman would have to subject herself to that to have a hit video. Even worse, it's working. Yeah, Lady Gaga never wears pants. But she is the one in control, she is not a ragdoll for a man to dispose of after banging.

Junior said...

Hey Paul... You see, I am getting better. Instead of doing a whole post about how much I hate the Timberfake, I just did one little link! But I totally follow you about The Faceless Woman.

It's like they seriously aren't even human anymore just bodyforms or something. Fem bots. But without heads so they can't think or speak or disagree. Seriously I first saw the Lloyd video and gasped like "Um, these girls all don't have EYES! Why is no one discussing this?!"

As for Timberfake. I hate him. I've always hated him. I don't think he's cute although I will admit I used to (I even have his Rolling Stone cover somewhere). But after Janet/aping black music/showing up on "SNL" too much/Jessica Biel/being a general douche I can't co-sign on anything he does ever. But I don't look down on anyone who likes him and I'm not trying to change anyone's mind! Promise!

Regardless, I say all this to say that I'm not surprised he's pulling Ciara around on a chain (I haven't seen the whole video because I don't like Ciara's music much) but the general idea (slavery happened people!) reaffirms everything I think about him... UGH!

Allan S. said...

I'm taking a Global Women's Studies class this semester. Within that class of 25 students, only 3 are males. I think many males would be surprised to know how by oppressing females, we in turn oppress ourselves, and the rest of humanity.

It's so played out when these boys that consider themselves men, work with that tired cliche of the madonna and whore. The reduced other humans to a two-dimensional being. Therefore, you get the faceless woman.

Please note I'm using male and female. Men and women gender labels are a fucking social construct that is holding us back. Hey, even male and female labels are problematic.

Let me meditate how I can spread some new found knowledge on a future post.

BTW, I truly believe that Timberfake and misogynistic men would become so much more interesting if they decided to be authentic and not punish themselves for wanting it up the ass. It would be a start.

Junior said...

Amen, Allan! The constant objectification of women hurts everyone and what kills me is these same musicians will then write a song to their mothers or bring their moms onstage when they win an award...

It's like, you do realize your mom IS A WOMAN TOO! If you respect her, why can't you make the leap to respecting all women. And honestly, I think The Faceless Woman is even worse than the Madonna/Whore because at least the Madonna/Whore gets to have a personality. The Faceless Woman is literally a semen receptacle! If we're being honest, and that's gross...